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We love because he first loved us.
Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.
And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.

GNT … Be strong, patient, selfless and love will abide in unbroken love with you. Where love was betrayed there was a garden. Where there is love, lonely places blossom as the rose.
Be not afraid! Love on! Love always! “This is the true God, and eternal life.”
But one thought of hatred or ill-will will cause the experience to vanish and you will have to start all over again.